Boys

[Jun]

I’m sure that Cambodian boy will be easily replaced. I’m kind of lazy and have no problem with choices in pattaya so I’ll stay there. Between the bars and hornet I have too many to choose from.

Nowhere else that I have been to has a choice like Pattaya.

The first time I went to Cambodia was about 18 years ago & when I walked into a gay bar in Siem Reap, there were about 10 cute boys watching me. However, that was before so many of them moved to Pattaya. On recent visits, it took a lot more effort to find boys in Cambodia.
Perhaps that might improve now a few have gone home.

Also, it may be the same in Laos. An M Bar boy has recently been posting about sitting in an empty gay bar in Vientiane. Well it's a chicken and egg situation. So many Lao boys have gone to Pattaya that it takes longer to find a boy in Vientiane these days. So the tourists are more likely to go to Pattaya.

And on a previous topic, after you had a boy move in during your holiday, how difficult is it to move him out at the end of your holiday ?

[Gaybutton]

it took a lot more effort to find boys in Cambodia.

Now it will take a lot more effort to find Cambodian boys in Pattaya or anywhere else in Thailand due to Hun Sen's threat to seize homes and lands from Cambodians who stay in Thailand. Just a few days ago he began threatening to revoke their citizenship.

Why when I think of Hun Sen I also think of Trump?

[christianpfc]

On recent visits, it took a lot more effort to find boys in Cambodia.

I have a handful of boys in Phnom Penh and Siem Reap, for me as good as Bangkok or Pattaya. You could argue that these are regulars that I have collected over the years. However when I go online to look for new talent, it's similar to Bangkok or Pattaya. Boy-wise, I consider Cambodia (and Myanmar as well) better than Thailand. However everything else is below standards I know from Thailand.

[Jun]

Well, back in 2007, the selection of boys in Linga Bar Siem Reap probably was of better quality than any bar in Jomtien is today. So it was easy.
On recent trips to Siem Reap, there were no obvious available cute boys in the town centre bars.
Phnom Penh has Tool Box, but the last time I was in there, it wasn't quite what I was looking for.
So some effort on the apps was required to find a boy.

To be fair, it also takes quite a bit of time to land a new boy on the apps in Bangkok. Like most active board members, I'm no longer using the Bangkok gogo bars for finding boys. I usually speed things up by messaging a boy I have met before via Line.

In Pattaya, it's easy to find boys on the apps, as long as you don't expect the boy you're chasing to be online 24-7.
My problem there is more about finding time to meet new boys, when there are several boys who I keep seeing again & again.

[Rocket]

And on a previous topic, after you had a boy move in during your holiday, how difficult is it to move him out at the end of your holiday ?

It’s not so bad getting them to move out. On my previous trip I told the boy I was running out of money and we both agreed it was time for him to go. Not easy as I enjoyed his company.

But this past trip he wanted more money and I didn’t give in so he left. We were only together for two days.

After him, when I had about six weeks left. I let the devil in my home. I decided to let him stay till the end, as the great sex made up for the incredible drama. I never trusted him and I lost my key to my safe so I talked with a friend who lives in my condo about how to proceed. I guess I described the boy to my friend in a bad light, as my friend suggested I leave immediately to Bangkok and lock him out.

I decided to play the boy by telling him we’d be together when I came back on my next trip. This worked well as I communicated with him for a few weeks and then left him a message that I didn’t think it would work out and I blocked him.

So he probably hates me and will bad mouth me to his circle of Cambodian friends.

[Gaybutton]

So he probably hates me and will bad mouth me to his circle of Cambodian friends.

Rocket, no offense - after all I wouldn't know who you are if you were sitting next to me - but your boy choices and the way you deal with them, especially when they cause problems - don't you think you need to work on it and improve - greatly improve?

[Dodger]

.......My problem there is more about finding time to meet new boys, when there are several boys who I keep seeing again & again.

If the day ever comes when you meet a boy that you want to see again - and again - and again - and again - and again - and again, believe me, the problem of not having enough time to find another becomes superfluous.

[Jun]

Rocket, no offense - after all I wouldn't know who you are if you were sitting next to me - but your boy choices and the way you deal with them, especially when they cause problems - don't you think you need to work on it and improve - greatly improve?

Some of Rocket's boys are very hot and as long as a good time is had whilst it lasts, I see no problem.

Take Suk for example. He's very hot & I have bought him a couple of drinks when he was at BA Bar. However, I decided he looked like high maintenance & decided not to take it further. Also, he tried to barge in and get me to buy him a drink when I was getting acquainted with another Cambodian lad back in December. I sent him away.
However, if someone enjoys his company whilst it lasts, where is the problem ?
[Incidentally, Suk was one of the ones who was posting anti-Thai propaganda on FB on a regular basis. Whatever your views on the border dispute, it's a bit dumb for someone who has spent a lot of time working in Thailand and might want to do so again]

The boys I see vary. At one extreme I have a lad who is small, quiet, reliable and very good in bed. However, he's not as much fun as some other boys who are more of a handful & not quite as reliable.
There are trade offs.

If the day ever comes when you meet a boy that you want to see again - and again - and again - and again - and again - and again, believe me, the problem of not having enough time to find another becomes superfluous.

Perhaps, but when I'm not living in Thailand, butterflying works quite well.

[Rocket]

So he probably hates me and will bad mouth me to his circle of Cambodian friends.

Rocket, no offense - after all I wouldn't know who you are if you were sitting next to me - but your boy choices and the way you deal with them, especially when they cause problems - don't you think you need to work on it and improve - greatly improve?

Well I prioritize sex over most other things. So in the pursuit of it, I sometimes create other problems. But I’m fine about it. I’m looking forward to more interesting sex my coming trip. I just have to modify the way I perform it this time. Probably less edging.

I’m noticing that the boys are paying attention to my age. I don’t like it but I’m dealing with it. During one threesome a boy asked me how old I was, in a negative way. They need to deal with it also if they want business.

As I complained about Suk in another post, on a positive note, he was always enthusiastic and defended my age to his buddy. Now his friend welcomes me when I enter his bar, even if he’s thinking I’m an old codger.

[Jun]

I’m noticing that the boys are paying attention to my age. I don’t like it but I’m dealing with it. During one threesome a boy asked me how old I was, in a negative way. They need to deal with it also if they want business.

As I complained about Suk in another post, on a positive note, he was always enthusiastic and defended my age to his buddy. Now his friend welcomes me when I enter his bar, even if he’s thinking I’m an old codger.

I notice at least one very cute University educated Thai lad who always seems to be with elderly customers. I would estimate over 70 years old.
On the other hand, there are boys who only seem to be seen with quite young boyfriends.
I suspect there are plenty of boys who accept customers with a wide range of ages, although many have limits.

Now, if we have any elderly board members here, perhaps they would like to comment on the issue ?