I think you were unlucky there. Whilst there are boys who don't want to do anything in bed, it's been several years since I had one.
I've not encountered all of the additional attitude issues mentioned. I'm surprised they haven't simply fired him.
They certainly have the finest selection of boys in Pattaya. However, before the show, it seems the majority are on display outside. It then only takes about 2 customers to fill the comfy seats in the outdoor section, leaving the choices of going inside or to another bar. I usually choose the latter option.
If they put so many boys outside, a few comfy customer seats outside would help.
As it is now, the bar seems to be fairly quiet until near show time.