Boys

[Dodger]

......1 hour massages that last less than an hour are quite common these days.

Who cares, as long as it was a great ending?

[Jun]

The massage room should have a clock on the wall, so both customer and masseur can check time.

In a country where a 1 hour oil massage can last between 25 minutes and 60 minutes, it makes sense to check the time. Some masseurs struggle with being separated from their phones for the full 60 minutes. I also knew a Thai masseur in the UK who always went slightly over the 60 or 90 minutes and was very good in other respects. He was keen to get repeat business. Which worked.

One of the better places I visited recently had a clock at the end of each massage table. The very good massage lasted 50 minutes and as he joined me in the shower, I'll count that too, so close to 60 minutes total.

Here are details of the place in Buriram.
https://maps.app.goo.gl/dZ5r4PhCqtvyS1PMA
https://www.facebook.com/share/161ksJDXHL/

[Dodger]

One of the better places I visited recently had a clock at the end of each massage table.

Wow...what a great idea. It would even be better if they had it hooked up to an alarm system.

[Dodger]

All kidding aside...

I know that most guys who frequent the gay massage parlors on a regular basis have a selection of boys they like at various parlors based on past performance...exactly the same as they do for other services. This is how I managed my affairs when I was still a butterfly, and I know my expat friends do the same.

Constantly changing boys, regardless of the service they're providing, adds risk...no way around it. Especially now with all the immigrant workers who don't always provide the same level of quality as the Thais, as well as the fact that staffing is much more fluid now - where the boys sitting outside on the chairs these days are in a constant state of flux.

Getting that list of "Boy Specials" is the winning ticket.

[Jun]

I know that most guys who frequent the gay massage parlors on a regular basis have a selection of boys they like at various parlors based on past performance...

That's exactly what I do, but it only works in a city where I spend some time.
Also, new boys are needed to replace those who have moved on. I'm still missing my favourite massage boy.

Especially now with all the immigrant workers who don't always provide the same level of quality as the Thais

I'm getting pretty good service from the immigrant boys, although it's necessary to have a careful conversation to establish exactly what they do before agreeing to meet them.
15 years ago, I might have offed mainly Thai lads from gogo bars after minimal conversation and had quite good results on average.
Now, meeting Lao, Cambodian and a few Thai boys via the apps, I'm getting even better results. The keys to this are asking the right questions and having more repeat meetings with the good ones.

Adapting behaviour is the key to dealing with change. Not everyone gets that.

[Dodger]

I'm getting pretty good service from the immigrant boys, although it's necessary to have a careful conversation to establish exactly what they do before agreeing to meet them.

If that's what you feel you need to do then by-all-means march on, but I wouldn't assume that others have to do the same to receive good service, because honestly, most of the guys I know don't.

[Jun]

If that's what you feel you need to do then by-all-means march on, but I wouldn't assume that others have to do the same to receive good service, because honestly, most of the guys I know don't.

In your previous post, you told us how immigrant workers don't provide the same level of service.
I just explained how I mitigate that and get great results.
Suddenly your friends don't have the problem with immigrant workers.

Would you mind explaining the contradiction?

[Dodger]

In your previous post, you told us how immigrant workers don't provide the same level of service.
I just explained how I mitigate that and get great results.
Suddenly your friends don't have the problem with immigrant workers.

Most of my friends over here do exactly as I did when I was a butterfly, and that's develop a cadre of boys they like and trust to spend their time with, and that includes the massage boys.

As mentioned before, they rarely have problems with the boys they interact with, but they also know the importance of treating them with respect in the process. We've spent many hours - over many years talking about this very same subject, and they're interacting with the very same boys that you are on a regular basis, 24/7, 365 days a year.

It serves no purpose to continue belaboring these same points over and over. You have your ways of handling your social interactions with the boys over here, and I have mine. Let's just agree to disagree so we can get this topic back on the right track.

[Jun]

It serves no purpose to continue belaboring these same points over and over. You have your ways of handling your social interactions with the boys over here, and I have mine. Let's just agree to disagree so we can get this topic back on the right track.

I agree entirely.
Yet every time I post about my activities, you're the one who can't resist offering some "advice". Typically repetitive, drerogatory, dated and advising me to do what I already do. Without ever being supported by reports of your own recent activities in the same field.
If you cease doing that, we won't have a problem.

I'm going to continue posting about my activities.

By all means write about your own activities, rather than advising on an activity you admit you stopped years ago.

Most of my friends over here do exactly as I did when I was a butterfly, and that's develop a cadre of boys they like and trust to spend their time with, and that includes the massage boys.

That's exactly what I do.
However, occasionally we need to replenish that list of boys with some new ones. Preferably going directly to the good guys .
I welcome any comments on that topic from people still butterflying in 2025 and prepared to write about their own current experiences. Walk the talk.

[Gaybutton]

The topic is about Boys. It's not about a modern day Hatfield and McCoy feud or a Joan Crawford and Bette Davis feud.

I step in when the posts start to get personal. They're getting personal - too personal. Discuss boys on this topic. Do the feuding via PM.

"You were both wrong! And you were both right."
- Yul Brynner (Taras), 'Taras Bulba'