Nationality of Boys & Performance

[Jun]

As I have said many times, I very rarely go to the bars these days. Meanwhile I have been reading the posts about how Cambodian, Lao, Burmese, and more rarely Vietnamese boys are the ones who work in the bars now, far more than Thai boys.

I am wondering - have those of you who frequent these bars and take boys off noticed any correlation between nationality of the boys and how "good" they are in private and how willing they are to perform?

Without any certainty, I'd rank them in the following order for willingness to perform: Lao, Thai, Burmese, Cambodian & Vietnamese.
However, that's comparing Burmese guys in Yangon, with others in Thailand.
And I meet Vietnamese guys VERY rarely & small sample sizes can be misleading.

Compared with Lao & Thai boys, I found Cambodians are less likely to keep promises.
However, I have learnt to solve that by asking better questions. So, I still end up meeting more Cambodian boys than Thais, as there are so many of them who are in better shape.
Also, no two boys are the same. For example, the boy I've met more frequently than any other is from Cambodia & he's very willing.


On the rare occasions I've met Vietnamese lads & asked them what they do, the answer has usually been no to most things.
Also, I know of a few others who say the Vietnamese have more of a tendency to under deliver.
However, the Vietnamese lad top of my masseur list certainly delivers on all promises.

Incidentally, I don't filter by nationality. I filter by appearance and attitude.
Although, if I'm talking to a Vietnamese lad, I'll be very careful in checking what he does.

The best boys I've ever met were from Laos.

[Dodger]

......Also, no two boys are the same.

Now you're getting it.

Not only are no two boys the same when they're with you...but no two boys are the same when they're with other farang partners either.

We've all seen this phenomenon where one guy describes a particular boy as being a total dud, while another farang describes the very same boy as being terrific in bed. Happens all the time. A lot of this has to do with a farangs personal appearance, personality...karma...the level of respect he shows the boy...and of course his generosity when it comes to tipping. IMO it's all of these things that equate to "good sex" regardless of a boys nationality.

[Jun]

We've all seen this phenomenon where one guy describes a particular boy as being a total dud, while another farang describes the very same boy as being terrific in bed. Happens all the time. A lot of this has to do with a farangs personal appearance, personality...karma...the level of respect he shows the boy...and of course his generosity when it comes to tipping. IMO it's all of these things that equate to "good sex" regardless of a boys nationality.

You have repeated that umpteen times, but to be fair, I'm also prone to repeating stuff.
To the list, you might add hygiene & what each party expects in bed.
Years ago, there was a cute little Lao lad who I met in Euro Boys & saw many times. He was always delightful. One of my friends, eventually offed him & I gather it ended with the lad getting thrown out. I silently blame the farang, but yet he had regulars boys who seemed to enjoy his company.

Now perhaps someone could add to the topic of nationality & boys performance.

[Rocket]

Number one best performance, definitely Thai boys for me. A distant second would be Cambodian and Lao equally the same.

My boyfriend of seven years was Thai. From Udon Thani so close to Lao border. He knew how to please for sure. I’m seeing my Thai twink soon, another one. He’s sexy as hell but treats me like a loaded ATM,lol. I don’t care as he seems to bring me luck. Crypto is taking off again. Maybe some gold will come out instead of just cash. As I’m a very special ATM.

Now I’m seeing a Cambodian twink who’s a great bottom. I had to buy him a razor as a hint, which he didn’t take. So I took matters into my own hands literally. These Cambodian twinks aren’t as groomed or hygienic as Thai boys. Like going from a Honda to a Hyundai.

The last Lao boy rushed me which I didn’t like. But that seems to be a pattern. I’m not sure if they’re using my above average size as an excuse. The Cambodian twink I’m topping regularly aims to please me and even though he complained about me to his friend he lets me top him as long as I like. He’s performing above average but he knows I’m possibly looking for a boyfriend.

So Thai, Cambodian/ Lao, and not enough data for Vietnam or Burma boys to rate.

[SP55]

Based on own experience and also what most people wrote on boards like this, I would be very VERY careful if I ever thought about a vietnamese boy again (which I probably wont). I would make sure that every small detail about what he can do and don't do, and price, would have been discussed before any agreement.

[Dodger]

Based on own experience and also what most people wrote on boards like this, I would be very VERY careful if I ever thought about a vietnamese boy again (which I probably wont). I would make sure that every small detail about what he can do and don't do, and price, would have been discussed before any agreement.

I always try to avoid stereotyping but in this case have to agree. Most of the Vietnamese boys I've been with were "lay-backs".

An exception was a Vietnamese doll I met one night at the old Scorpions Bar/Soi Twilight/BKK. I actually judged him as being a lay-back but took him off anyway because he was just so dam HOT...but to my surprise he was terrific in bed. Ironically I offed his brother a few nights later who also worked as a door greeter at Scorpions (another drop-dead doll) with the very same results.

[Rocket]

I very recently had a half Cambodian and half Vietnam boy, at least according to him. He works at Ba Bar and picked him up after the bar closed.

He performed exceptionally well and I increased my inal tip as we were going along. I lowballed him in case he was a dud. Very skinny but not sure of his age.

So apparently my first half Vietnamese boy that I’m aware of.

[Jun]

The only Vietnamese boy I've had in my hotel in the last 10 years is my favourite masseur in Pattaya. I was very thorough in checking what he does.
All promises were kept, except for his age. Advertised as 24, but he was 31 according to his passport. Since he looked cute enough, I thought this was not important.
I've invited him back a few times.

Unfortunately, he's put on quite a bit of weight since our first meeting. I'm more likely to tolerate that from a masseur, but there are limits.

There are maybe 7 million people in Laos, yet about half my Pattaya dates are with Lao boys. Nearer to 100 million in Vietnam and I very rarely meet them

[Dodger]

There are maybe 7 million people in Laos, yet about half my Pattaya dates are with Lao boys. Nearer to 100 million in Vietnam and I very rarely meet them.

I don't think this has anything to do with population.

Laos is ranked as one of the poorest countries on earth with a GDP somewhere around U.S. 15 billion. Where Vietnam with its growing middle-class enjoys a GDP of around U.S. 468 billion with a low unemployment rate @ 2.24 % as well.

Knowing that "being poor" is the primary motivating factor for a young person to work as a prostitute. it only makes sense to want to tip them well for their services knowing the level of desperation most are experiencing.

[Gaybutton]

Knowing that "being poor" is the primary motivating factor for a young person to work as a prostitute. it only makes sense to want to tip them well for their services knowing the level of desperation most are experiencing.

I have mixed feelings about that. I certainly agree with why he works as a prostitute, but it is still his job, a job he chose. Nobody forced him to be a prostitute and I expect him to do his job and do it well if he wants a really good tip and/or wants me to be a repeat customer. If he doesn't then I have no reason to tip beyond standard if even that.

For me, the tip amount is decided the same way as any other job where tips are expected. In a restaurant, for example, if the waiter does a good job and provides good service, at least as good as I would reasonably expect, he gets a generous tip. If not, he gets a small tip or no tip at all depending on how bad a job he did. I see no reason to decide a tip amount for prostitutes by any other method.