Where do Boys Leaving The Gay Scene Go ?

[Dodger]

Any chance of some photos so the rest of us can see who you're talking about?

Sorry...I rarely ever shoot photo's in LaLa Land, but here's a link to the old Yaya Bar website that shows 2 of the boys I mentioned in my post, e.g., Yaya and Bas.

https://yayabar.wordpress.com/staff/

[SP55]

It's depressing as hell seeing washing machines standing in place of the pool table where you could always see a cute boy bending over to take a shot. Lots of very fond memories!

I also find it depressing seeing that laundrymat there when it makes one remember how busy that bar and soi was.
But the laundryplace is actually more busy than Forest house bar was in its last days.

[SP55]

The boys I was in contact with in my early days in Pattaya have ended up very differently. And most of them no surprise to me, I could guess if they would be successful or not. The smart and charming gayguys have rich boyfriends now and I see on Facebook how they display their new houses, cars, gold and cash. The drugaddicts are in many cases dead. One boy who was handsome but I thought had a bad attitude I see on Facebook now struggeling with low income and work in a shop. One straight boy who was a long time worker in Sunee is in jail for many years.

[Dodger]

A little history:

A boy named Film used to work as a freelancer at a host bar that sat next to Mic-My Gogo which would later be named Forest House.

Film, like the majority of boys who hung around this unnamed bar were of very questionable age, so in an effort to add some privacy the mamasan loaded the interior of the bar with thick bushes and small tress...thus the nick-name Forest Bar came into play. It wasn't until years later that it would be formally named Forest House.

After many years passed I ran into Film again only this time he was standing behind a food stall at the night market on Third Road and Soi Bon Kai. I imagine at least 15 years had passed since last seeing him but there was no mistaking his wonderful smile, dreamy eyes, and a butt that was sculpted by the gods.

We chatted for a long time. After leaving the scene in Sunee he worked for the traveling Diamond Cabaret Show (Morlam) as a stage setup helper...then a motorbike driver...and then something else (can't remember) Before parting ways he asked me if I wanted to see him later that night...I had to decline because I had someone waiting for me back at the loom...but I made sure to retrieve his mobile number for posterity's sake. Amazing that all these years passed but nothing really changed.

[Rocket]

because I didn’t respond for about a month on Line, he blocked me .

That's strange. It makes no sense to me that he would block you. He cut off a potential customer. I wonder why he would do that. I have contacts on LINE that I haven't heard from in years and forgot they are even on my contact list at all. But I don't see any reason to block or delete them.

I think he blocked me because I took photos of him. He may have thought I’d show them to someone so by blocking me, there’d be no way to identify him. At least that’s what I think.

[Dodger]

.......I think he blocked me because I took photos of him.......

Quite possible.

Most working boys (not all) are not too thrilled about being photographed and/or filmed unless previous arrangements were made and agreed upon. I think the reason for this is obvious with all the photo's and vids plastered all over the internet...with some being sold for a profit.

It's usually the younger and/or less experienced working boys who don't object to this - as the veterans tend to have a better handle on the risk involved.

I'm not criticizing you for doing this because I've snapped hundreds of pics myself - but, from memory, usually discussed this with the boy(s) before hand and always tipped a bit more for the extra service.

[Jun]

Boys attitudes to photos seem to vary from those who don't want to be photographed at all to those who are perfectly happy to be photographed nude. The latter includes those who will post photos of themselves wearing as little as is permitted on whatever platform they're using.

The internet has some advantages.

[Rocket]

Most working boys (not all) are not too thrilled about being photographed and/or filmed unless previous arrangements were made and agreed upon.

I usually don’t take photos of anyone I’m with. However this particular one was very well hung. Even though he was older, I think he was very happy to have business.

And I didn’t take any face pics.

In a way I wish I did take more photos so I have something to look at when I’m away from Thailand.

I did tell my super sexy guy I was with upon newly meeting him, that sex was important to me. He then sent me unbelievable photos of himself. He uses filters and in the photos he made his skin appear lighter, as well as knowing how to pose sexy.

[Dodger]

.......And I didn’t take any face pics.

I did the very same thing - only I was obsessed with butt pics and had to mark their names on the pics for future reference.

I also had a thing for early-morning shots...when the boy was sleeping naked on his stomach with his legs spread...mmmmmm!!!!!!

Thais have the nicest asses.