Dealing with boys you don't want to off again ?

[Jun]

Occasionally, there are boys I don't want to visit me again.

Also, right now, the boys I am seeing regularly meeting are so good, I'm even struggling to fit in an new boys. The last new one was in February !

So going back to a boy I know, but have lost interest in is NOT going to happen.
For instance, there's one who gained a few tattoos & has some odd grooming habits. He doesn't really turn me on any more and also his performance in bed has been slipping.
Starting to slack off is bad for business, particularly if the customer is very satisfied with the other boys he's seeing.

I think this boy had forgotten about me, which would be a good result. However, apparently he spotted me in Jomtien Complex yesterday, so I started getting line messages today.

The most efficient way to deal with this would be to ignore the incoming messages. However, I consider that to be rather rude. I usually exchange pleasantries and if the boy asks for a meeting, decline.
Then if I start getting too many messages, start to ignore those.

[Gaybutton]

ignore the incoming messages. However, I consider that to be rather rude.

I don't. That is exactly the way I usually handle it if it is a boy I no longer want anything to do with. Most of the time, for me, it's because of the pleas for money, but sometimes it is simply that I've lost interest or have a new, much stronger interest.

In virtually every case the boy persists sending messages for a while, then finally gives up and that's the last I hear from him. I've moved on and eventually so has he.

As I said, I see nothing rude about it. I would rather ignore his messages than come up with reasons not to see him. If I tell him the real reason, to me that would be rude.

I always keep in mind that in most cases the boy's interest in me is primarily money. When he finally realizes he won't be getting any, he moves on.

In any case, for me the easiest and most expedient way is to ignore his messages. I don't even read them. I just delete them. That works just fine.

Remember, unless you have made promises, you owe him nothing.

[Jun]

Thanks.

Remember, unless you have made promises, you owe him nothing.

Usually, about the promises I make to bar boys are regarding meeting them again. Such promises are only made to the best boys and I make sure I keep those promises.
On the other hand, I don't make any promises to lads who I don't really want to meet.

The one exception was was making the slightly bigger promise to fund a passport for a Cambodian lad back in June. I intend to keep that too. However, he reviewed the political situation & decided to defer that.