Boys

[Rocket]

Yes it’s quite shocking the rooms these guys stay in. Sometimes no windows and just a fan with maybe a dresser or plastic chair.

A wise choice not letting him stay in your room. I let the boy you posted above move in with me for a month. No real problems with him. I mistakenly thought he took my passwords I had written down.

But that was my trip from two years ago. This past year I agreed to let a boy stay with me for my last month or so. Tremendous drama throughout his stay. We both drank together but he drank way too much most of the time. After a while I let him stay out till the morning without me. Amazingly he always found his way back to my condo. Then he would scream and pretend he was going to jump out my window. Making a real mess with food and sauces. He always cleaned up later and apologized saying he would stop drinking.
I enabled him of course, as I had fallen for him. He’s very good look8ng. And he would flirt with everyone making me jealous. Almost got into a fight with a Russian in the complex who wanted to take him.
Of course you know this guy you’re with so even if you let him stay it would probably be ok. I understand he just wanted to stay there temporarily to get over his hangover.

[Gaybutton]

Tremendous drama throughout his stay.

When you allow one of these bar boys to stay with you - age gap, culture gap, language gap, all he really wants is money, etc. and he is a drinker, possibly a drug user too, what did you expect? I hope when you return you're not going to do it again.

"Don't repeat that mistake, Mr. Christian."
- Trevor Howard (Captain Bligh), 'Mutiny on the Bounty'

[Jun]

I hope when you return you're not going to do it again.

There's a balance to be struck between making totally rational decisions and living a full life. Sometimes, it doesn't hurt to push boundaries. Rocket probably gets it about right.

Personally, I'd have zero tolerance for any lad threatening to jump off the balcony.

Meanwhile, my lad was apparently trafficked here to work on a building site. He would like a passport.
One of my other Cambodian friends is currently banned from entering Thailand due to overstay. I don't want to see a repeat, so I'm not averse to contributing to that passport. I just have to ensure he doesn't drink the money.

[Rocket]

To put in context. I only had about six weeks left before leaving Thailand. And I thought I’d receive more sex with him with me. Unfortunately he didn’t keep his word. The amount of sex we had was not enough for me, however, when we had it it was quite incredible.

So I put up with his drinking and chaos for that fun time. He knew exactly how far he could push me and what he could get away with. He was manipulative also. I told him I wasn’t going to a karaoke bar at the end of the night as I had to stop drinking suddenly. He had a friend sit next to me and hit on me, so I would want to go with him and his friends to the karaoke bar. I left and he went out with his friends. I had gotten used to his routine by then. About 10 am he comes back totally shit faced. And we wrestled for awhile and then had great sex. Luckily for me I’m stronger than him. I also got used to him threatening to jump out the window.
Perhaps he’s suicidal in real life and the alcohol brings it out. At any rate, I’m here in America somewhat bored and kind of miss his crazy shenanigans.

[Jun]

That's Cambodians for you !

The Lao boys I know will show up and quietly provide all the services a customer might hope for. And often speak quite good English too.

On the other hand, the Cambodians bring a bit more excitement and unpredictability to events. Often one step away from complete chaos. Who knows what they may do.

As for missing it, well there's always the option of a summer trip.
In my case, it was almost worth the air fare just to see the smile on his face, when the ATM made an unexpected appearance at his bar.

[Jun]

At any rate, I’m here in America somewhat bored and kind of miss his crazy shenanigans.

Get the next flight booked.

Here in Pattaya, a certain boy appears to have just 3 budget outfits that he wears in rotation. Notably, these don't include anything he was wearing 3 months ago. Apparently the previous clothing went to a "friend" to settle debts.

I'm tipping him frequently and properly. I'm not here the whole time, but I know he gets some other customers.

[christianpfc]

...so I'm not averse to contributing to that passport. I just have to ensure he doesn't drink the money.

Most of these boys can't hold onto money. Giving him the money now to get a passport later has a low chance of success.

By the way, a Cambodian passport is unreasonably expensive: US$100 (10 years) or US$80 (5 years) (data from wikipedia).

[Gaybutton]

Giving him the money now to get a passport later has a low chance of success.

It would be interesting to know if one of these visa services can get him a Cambodian passport.

[Jun]

It would be interesting to know if one of these visa services can get him a Cambodian passport.

I have done a little google research. Apparently they have agencies operating in the passport offices in Cambodia.

I had considered going with him and paying the passport office directly. However, the presence of a farang in the passport office would increase the tea money required.
Also, it's difficult to schedule on this trip. So I shall look for other solutions.

Most of these boys can't hold onto money. Giving him the money now to get a passport later has a low chance of success.

He's definitely not getting the money now. At the very minimum, he has to be in Cambodia with the documents ready. I'd like to think of a more robust way of ring fencing the money.

[Gaybutton]

It would be interesting to know if one of these visa services can get him a Cambodian passport.

I have done a little google research. Apparently they have agencies operating in the passport offices in Cambodia.

I meant one of the visa agents in Thailand, namely Pattaya. They got me my new American passport. Can they do the same for Cambodians?