Well WhiteDesire, I have to reluctantly agree with what you wrote above. It hurts - but it is true in my case.whitedesire wrote: ↑Tue Nov 08, 2022 5:11 am The older gays - well its "time's up" in the Western countries for them and they get nothing, that's why they go East.
As I was getting older and older in the Western world I saw that my accessibility to guys who were younger than me was decreasing rapidly - as my time was up.
I never considered Asian guys - as I had not had much exposure to them. Prior to this, my exposure was mainly with WASPs (White Anglo-Saxon Protestant), Italians, persons of color, and Jewish guys.
In 2012, my job sent me to Asia for a couple of missions and then my tastes changed and I saw that the Asians were less closed off to us older guys than my Western counterparts. So, this changed my thinking for my future retirement. I said, I can remain in the West and be invisible or I can go to the East and be visible. After that revelation, the choice became easy for me.