What is Sex?

Anything and everything about gay life anywhere in the world, especially Asia, other than Thailand.
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Re: What is Sex?

Post by Undaunted » Tue Aug 06, 2019 8:52 pm

Anything that does not result in an orgasm is not sex!
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Re: What is Sex?

Post by deanagam » Tue Aug 06, 2019 9:59 pm

Traditionally, penetrative straight sex is for the sole purpose of creation of a healthy offspring or two. Everything else in whatever permutation is the casual and conscious pursuit of enjoyment and ecstatic enlightenment by testing the limits of the five senses.
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Re: What is Sex?

Post by TomUK » Wed Aug 07, 2019 5:50 am

I have got an old tourist guide for Britain explaining "sex" with a cartoon:

A voluptuous blonde is sitting in front of the personnel manager. While he is going through her job application he remarks: "In the line marked 'sex' you should have put female - not five times a week."

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Re: What is Sex?

Post by fountainhall » Thu Aug 08, 2019 9:35 am

What does a description matter? It's just two people enjoying themselves.

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Re: What is Sex?

Post by RichLB » Thu Aug 08, 2019 2:12 pm

I originally asked this question because I detect a huge socio/cultural shift in the last decade. To me, it even calls into question what it means to be gay. On almost all TV series, and especially "reality" shows, gay characters get sexually involved with "straight" characters while none of the rest of the cast bats an eye. For example, the program Big Brother often shows an out gay guy cuddling under the covers with a self identified straight guy and his heterosexuality is never called into question. Several sitcoms present deep kissing without regard to gender. Surprisingly even the Disney channel on a show marketed to middle school teens, Andi Mack, has a story line between two thirteen year old boys approaching intimacy. Even in the porn industry the line appears to be blurred. There are series such as Broke Straight Boys and Czech Hunter where young men engage in full on gay sex and continue to define themselves as straight.
These examples, and others, cause me to question how society now defines sex and specifically as applied to gay folk. Are "bromances" and "brojobs" now just considered non sexual orientation play? Is "helping out a friend" with one way masturbation not deemed sex? If so, times have radically changed since I was a teenager.

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Re: What is Sex?

Post by a447 » Thu Aug 08, 2019 2:28 pm

RichLB wrote:
Thu Aug 08, 2019 2:12 pm
Even in the porn industry the line appears to be blurred. There are series such as Broke Straight Boys and Czech Hunter where young men engage in full on gay sex and continue to define themselves as straight.
I don't believe for a second that those guys are straight.

To be able to bottom is not something you can do without a lot of practice. Porn which depicts a guy being taken off the street and topped is fake, as there is no way a guy could just "do it" like that. The pain would be unbearable.

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Re: What is Sex?

Post by ceejay » Thu Aug 08, 2019 7:37 pm

any act “in order to gratify the sexual desire of another person
is the definition of sex in the Thai law relating to prostitution.
Add ..."or one's self" to the end of it, and I think you have a pretty good working definition.

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