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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Jun » Thu Jan 30, 2020 9:05 am

Gaybutton wrote:
Wed Jan 29, 2020 11:52 pm
Sometimes the more money they ask for, the less they'll do to earn it.
If anything, I think there's a negative correlation between what they ask for and what is delivered. More money means less service.

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Thu Jan 30, 2020 4:33 am
..... usually if you overpaid a MB They might become greedy, rude and demanding and will try squeeze as much money as they can.
I don't have direct experience of that, but we do read about boys squeezing the customers for more than is reasonable.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by ISAC69 » Thu Jan 30, 2020 10:56 pm

I once overpaid a boy, but at the repeated sessions he wasn't satisfied at all when I paid him the normal rate. I guess he expected to receive the high fee for every session. I learnt my lesson.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Gaybutton » Fri Jan 31, 2020 12:25 am

ISAC69 wrote:
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I learnt my lesson.
If you're going to give a boy more money than usual, don't do it at the first time with him. Give it to him the last time with him, such as the last day of your holiday before you go home. That way instead of being something he will expect, and a disappointment for him when he doesn't get it, instead it will be a happy surprise for him.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by rocket » Fri Jan 31, 2020 5:34 am

That’s a good point. They will be expecting the same large tip. I made that mistake with my boyfriend, but I wasn’t expecting to see him again.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by pong » Fri Jan 31, 2020 9:01 am

Give a repeat a little more every time you are together-but NOT if the performance was less as last time. Works wonders. If its going to be many times-then set yourself an upper limit. This obviously means you start not with a high tip.
If you are repeat visitor (in the sense of coming back to TH soon enough) then make it very clear your last farewell present is just for once for the occasion. Perhaps even in small notes so he gets the idea you're simply clearing out the wallet as you're leaving.
Bit TiTs and there are no hard+fast rules for anyone anytime. Have had plenty of guys who were really glad to see me back. A kind of fixed dependable be it a little lower income is to be preferred by many above one time higher but you never know. Also in many places its very questionable if they exchange among them what you give, I've had many requests to ´already pay in the room´ as others would not even be able to glance (massageshops).

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Gaybutton » Fri Jan 31, 2020 9:34 am

pong wrote:
Fri Jan 31, 2020 9:01 am
Perhaps even in small notes so he gets the idea you're simply clearing out the wallet as you're leaving.
I don't think so. The only idea a money boy gets is how to continue clearing out your wallet whether you're there or not.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Jun » Fri Jan 31, 2020 2:22 pm

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I've had many requests to ´already pay in the room´ as others would not even be able to glance (massageshops).
Handing over a large tip in reception is a clear indication that extra services were probably provided.
Of course, there are a number of reasons why they might want to keep this discrete. Not everyone wants to publicise that they are providing sexual services for money. In some cases, the shop management might discourage this. And they might want to hide income from the leeches.

Where extra services were provided, I always thought it was natural to tip in the room. So that's what I do, assuming I have the correct change (obviously a simple HJ is not a 1000 baht service).

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Dodger » Fri Jan 31, 2020 2:50 pm

This is going to sound like a really stupid and/or naive question to ask, but what do you guys mean when you say "Extra Services"?

Honestly, and I mean this sincerely, and not as an attempt to be sarcastic, back when I was involved with offing boys A) money was never discussed, B) The scope (or nature) of the service was never discussed before hand, C) we enjoyed finding out each other's preferences when the time was right, D) the scope of services was considered "all inclusive".

I ALWAYS tipped 1,500 baht, and side-stepped the occasional request for additional money, regardless of who or what it was for. I never asked for "Extra Anything" . and never knew I wasn't already getting it.

I know there are guys out there who have some really twisted sexual requests, like having a boy crawl around on the floor naked on all fours barking like a dog whilst having a cucumber inserted up his anal aperture, etc., which, rightfully so, belong in the category of "Extra Services", but it doesn't appear that this is what you guys are referring to in your posts.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Jun » Fri Jan 31, 2020 3:43 pm

Note that I was referring to services at a massage shop, not an off to my hotel room.
For me, if I go for an oil massage, standard service excludes massaging my genitals.

Extra services might include a hand job and perhaps the masseur stripping off. I believe about 5-600 is appropriate there, since the service is not equivalent to full sex AND where they raise the subject, thry often suggest 500 or around that.

Some go to the gay places, which offer everything and hence the tipping is 1000 or more. I'm not an expert in this field, as if I want full service, it's usually in my hotel room, not a massage place.

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Re: "I NEED MONEY FOR RENT"

Post by Dodger » Fri Jan 31, 2020 4:28 pm

Jun wrote:
Fri Jan 31, 2020 3:43 pm
Note that I was referring to services at a massage shop, not an off to my hotel room.
For me, if I go for an oil massage, standard service excludes massaging my genitals.

Extra services might include a hand job and perhaps the masseur stripping off. I believe about 5-600 is appropriate there, since the service is not equivalent to full sex AND where they raise the subject, thry often suggest 500 or around that.

Some go to the gay places, which offer everything and hence the tipping is 1000 or more. I'm not an expert in this field, as if I want full service, it's usually in my hotel room, not a massage place.
Thanks for the clarification.

That makes sense.

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